This Happens 4 Times A Year

I am so looking forward to this special week for three reasons:

  1. Doing the Weekly Review today. (#13 of the year)
  2. Doing the Monthly Review over the weekend. I’ll do it by reviewing the 4 weekly reviews of the month.
  3. Doing the Quarterly Review over the weekend. I’ll do it by reviewing the past three monthly reviews.

See, this system worked wonderfully last year, and I am thrilled to maintain it this year.

I invite you to start this habit small by committing to weekly reviews first. It’s my keystone habit for life tracking.

P.S: You can find all my favorite planners and journals here.

This Happens 4 Times A Year

Digital Habits Update-March 2021

My new post digital declutter challenge life is not working as well as I intended it.

I still need to re-configure some stuff. I would be lying if I said I didn’t care about the engagement level of my stories or posts. I want my content to do well and reach people who will benefit from it. I am still attached to the outcome (rather than The Practice) which is highly challenging and algorithm-dependent. I still have the urge to check and post in the morning because I like inspiring my followers in such an important part of the day that I often speak about mastering, not just post in the evenings as I decided when I ended the challenge last month.

What’s been working:

  • Quiet no phone evenings are still working great after I get home from work.
  • No social media during working hours.
  • Committing to the time limit for social media most days.
  • No Facebook on phone.
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Don’t Think it, Write it

When I am at my home office early in the morning, I tend to stare outside the window a lot and replay a recent event in my head or daydream. Then I notice the timer on my desk which means I need to focus to make the best of my morning routine before heading to work or kids wake up, so I tell myself “don’t think it, write it” to remember to use my journal to capture my daydreams and replays on paper. Locking my thoughts in paper helps me think more clearly and get some insights.

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Apps I love: Readwise

An application I’m adoring these days is readwise. After using it for a month I’ll recommend it to anyone who uses Kindle for reading.

Readwise brings back all those books I read years ago on my Kindle through a digest of my own highlights sent by a daily email and their super app. It can also save twitter threads for you, how cool is that?

What I like about Readwise is that I don’t only remember what I read, I remember who I was when I read those books and feel proud of all the long hours I put into reading. It gives so much joy to use it and I can save and share favorite highlights in social media-friendly formats.

Click my link to get a free one-month trial and see for yourself.

HT to @AliAbdaal for pointing me towards Readwise.

Apps I love: Readwise

Recommit

You broke your diet?
You binged on social media and Netflix?
You yelled at your kids again despite your intentions to be a calmer parent?
You stopped meditating?
You stopped working out?
You gossiped again?
You stayed up way too late?
You slept in way too late?
You let your books collect dust?
You broke the chain of your new daily habit?
You checked your phone first thing in the morning?
You did not do what you said you would?
You let the gas tank go empty?
You went to bed with makeup on?
You did not return that phone call?
You kept picking up your phone while with family?
You kept picking up your phone in your focused session?
You got the gift last minute?
You forgot to drink water?
You postponed that task one more time?

Good! Now you are aware this is not what you want.
Forgive yourself and simply recommit.
That is the beauty of a new day.

Recommit

A Fine Saturday

I started my Saturday at 7am by taking a one-hour walk with 2 dear friends of mine. It felt so good to start my day on such a high note that I will try to commit to it every Saturday, especially with this great weather.
Walking has been a consistent habit of mine since last year’s lock-down. I have been mostly doing it in the evenings to watch the breathtaking sunset view we have outside our house. Today however, I felt rewarded socially by seeing my friends, which we don’t get to do during these tough times, and also by seeing many people walking this early on their day off. I consider walking as a new habit in our culture and I’m proud it is spreading.

Do you walk? Our physiology changes when we move, so get going.
I recommend getting a smart watch to track your steps, it’ll make it a game you can win every day.

A Fine Saturday

How To Do a Weekly Preview

Note: Michael Hyatt uses the term preview not review on purpose because in this practice we are not just reviewing the past, we are also preparing for a better week ahead based on the insights we gain. So without further ado here it is:

The Weekly Preview Practice according to Full Focus Planner by Michael Hyatt.

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Streaks & Chains

I’ve talked often in this blog about the power of chains as a way to track habits, simply because It works. Crossing off any habit as “done”  is the exact kind of short term reward that enforces commitment to an action until it becomes a habit. Seeing the chain of daily wins growing is powerful to keep at it.

James Clear mentioned the example of his father who swims daily, and to keep himself motivated , crosses off the day on his calendar after. Why? because on a day-to-day basis he can’t see the impact of committing to his habit, however,  every time he crosses off that calendar he feels progress towards becoming healthier.

This is a key idea in James’s book Atomic Habits; every time we commit to a habit we cast a vote to the identity of the type of person we want to become. We need to ask ourselves 2 questions to form the right habits for us:

  1. Who is the type of person we want to be?
  2. What choices does this type of person make?

For example, if healthy is our new chosen identity, we need to ask ourselves what would a healthy person do? What meal would he/she pick? What would they say when offered dessert? Every time we work out we also strengthen our new identity as healthy people, our chain would prove it even if we still can’t or feel the results yet. Seeing visual progress helps us keep going instead of quitting.


I enjoy how some applications and platforms also use the concept of chains, Readwise keeps a streak of how many days users read their selection of book highlights.  Akmibo workshops keep streaks of how many days students show up in the workshop in a row and notify them every now and then and also post their names on a board for all streak keepers. As their student, this makes me want to show up even more to keep and grow my streak, this is the funny and lovely thing about our beautiful human brain, it gets so motivated by all this tracking and rewarding. 


Make the magic of streaks work for you too. Start a chain of a new daily habit and keep showing up every single day. Remember to ask what kind of person you want to be, then do what that person does and track it everyday.

Streaks & Chains

One Month of Daily Writing

With this post I hereby announce I have committed to my new practice of writing daily on this blog for a whole month. It’s such a good feeling to have a quick win already so early in the year.


Currently, my writing habit context is so tightly associated with my work office and not home office, so last weekend I almost went to bed without writing my daily post, hence posting at 11pm yesterday. Accordingly, I need to start getting my writing done so early in the day in weekends to keep my practice and not miss a day by mistake or due to being too sleepy to remember.

During this month, I have noticed I’m starting to pay more attention to beautiful words I am reading to include them in future posts. I also realized that I need to try writing more than one post per day when I feel the flow in order to have some writing in queue and not necessarily post stuff the same day of writing them.

This means I will keep writing daily as one of my official annual goals for this year, and maybe, have this as a permanent practice?

That is the dream I don’t dare to share just yet.

One Month of Daily Writing

For The Love Of Timers

My podcast short format artwork, featuring Time Timer

I use timers all day long, they are one of my favorite tools to keep me conscious of time passing and to motivate me to do daily tasks.

My first timer was a digital kitchen timer that I used to track my morning routine and and to get myself started on house chores like washing dishes.

Then I got this big, gorgeous timer for my kids called Time Timer that I am featuring in my photo above to help them visualize what I mean when I say they need to do just 5 minutes of clean-up for example and to manage their screen-time, so when the timer goes off the TV gets turned off.

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