What do I get out of Journaling?

  • Detangling my thoughts.
  • Inspecting my emotional state.
  • Gaining clarity about my intentions for the day and where I’m going in my life.
  • Meditating on my actions of the previous day, especially the ones that were unfriendly or uncaring.
  • Heightening self- awareness
  • Releasing negativity and calming the noise in my head.
  • Practicing Gratitude.
  • Gaining insight and better understanding of and compassion towards others.
  • Fine-tuning my life by tracking it.
  • Resetting my values.
  • Zooming out to big picture view.
  • Focusing on my goals.
  • Evidence I walked the earth.

These are just a few of what you would get when you journal every day.

Totally worth your time.

What do I get out of Journaling?

Begin Again

You wanted to start today perfectly, but you didn’t? You were not at your best behavior perhaps? You snapped at someone or criticized others? You were mean, even?

I listened to something beautiful recently from Waking Up App about the power of beginning again. It went something like this, and I am paraphrasing here: “When we notice how we are acting, we need to make amends if we can then forgive ourselves immediately and completely. After that, we decide to free fall into the next moment without any residue of the past. “

We don’t need to take on the weight of guilt to the next moment.

I loved it so much. Today I needed it again. Maybe you do too?

Begin Again

Pre-Summer Sprint

A new work week is upon us, and it is the onset of the last school term before summer vacation. Working hours are back to regular, lunch breaks are back, vaccinated employees can come work at the premises and lockdown hours are delayed to 11pm in Jordan. Life is so close to the way it was once upon a time.

That means, we have a few weeks to do something remarkable before we free up our calendars again to spend time with loved ones who are coming from abroad or whom we are travelling to.

What remarkable thing will you accomplish?

Pre-Summer Sprint

Two-Step Verification

Just please. Activate it on all your important apps and spare yourself and people around you unnecessary future trouble. Check the security settings on your apps. Do it now, it will only take few minutes.

Two-Step Verification

Speak Up

First Day of Eid for my Muslim friends. I went out in the morning to run an errand. It wasn’t 10am yet and the neighborhood kids were out in the street in groups, dressed up so nicely in their Eid clothes, sisters matching and sometimes not. I was happy for them and the day they have ahead.

Then, my heart clenched.

Kids not 3 hours far from me, woke up to destruction of their homes and a missing parent or sibling. The last day of the holy month of Ramadan was the day when they were supposed to be eagerly waiting for Eid. Instead, Palestinian kids in Gaza witnessed traumatic fear and agony that no kids ever have to go through.

This has to stop. What’s happening to our brothers and sisters in Palestine is inhumane. Please spread the word.

#SaveSheikhJarrah #GazaUnderAttack #FreePalestine

Speak Up

Seed Cycling

I have shared the below recipe with more women than I can remember since I first read it in the eye-opening book Period Power by Maisie Hill which demystified the impact of hormones on my body and helped me honor it and respect its power. This is the seed cycling recipe to manage our hormones during the menstrual cycle. It helped me regulate my own cycle and minimize some physical and emotional symptoms I have before every period and also improve the health of my hair and the strength and length of my nails. Share this with all the women you know and start now.

In the follicular phase of your cycle (days 1–14 of a 28-day cycle), or from new moon to full moon if you’re not currently menstruating, eat 2–4 tbsps of both ground flax seeds and pumpkin seeds per day to gently and naturally increase oestrogen levels. Pumpkin seeds are high in zinc which supports progesterone production and release in the second phase of your cycle.

In the luteal phase of your cycle (days 15–28), or from full moon to dark moon, eat 2–4 tbsps of both sesame seeds and sunflower seeds per day. The zinc in sesame seeds and the vitamin E in sunflower seeds both help stimulate the production of progesterone. The lignans in sesame seeds help to block excess oestrogen, and sunflower seeds provide selenium which assists the liver in its detoxification role and improve overall hormonal health.”

Buy whole organic seeds and use a coffee or spice grinder to get a powder which you can add to porridge, soups, salads and smoothies. Or just eat them whole if you prefer. You can grind enough for the week ahead and store them in the freezer. Stay clear of pre-ground seeds as they oxidise rapidly and go rancid. You might experience a change in your cycle within the first month of seed cycling, but it usually takes 3–4 cycles to see a noticeable difference because that’s how long it takes for a follicle to mature and be released at ovulation.”

Source: Period Power: Harness Your Hormones and Get Your Cycle Working For You by Maisie Hill

Seed Cycling

New superpower

I read a lot, however, I noticed that since starting writing here daily I have been reading differently. I am noticing the various writing styles and the expressions used so much more. I re-read sentences just to take in how clearly and concisely they were written. It is as if I am acquiring a new superpower, a new set of eyes. What a treat.

New superpower

The Key to your happiness

When my husband and I were on the 9-hour flight back from our far east honeymoon, I got tired of watching movies so I decided to listen to an audiobook. It was The Mastery of Love: A Practical Guide to the Art of Relationship by Don Miguel Ruiz. It taught me that when we go into relationships, we usually give the key to our happiness to our new partners: “Here it is, it is now up to you. My happiness and misery are all in your hands.” But, that is the biggest lie we have believed based on the movies we watched and the fairytales we grew up reading. Nothing outside of us holds the key to our happiness. It’s too much of a responsibility, a burden even, to give to anyone.

Can you feel the irony of me learning about this as a new bride? The message was so loud and clear that it made me understand why it was so easy for me to get disappointed by my unrealistic and unmet expectations of what new husbands should and shouldn’t do. It was hard to hear, yet liberating.

The timing, in fact, always amazed me. It could not be any more perfect. This lesson was the wedding gift I needed to integrate as we were about to start our new life together.

The Key to your happiness

Delightful Encounters

It feels like stumbling on a treasure to me whenever I find interviews where my most favorite authors talk to each other, it’s like: “I knew it! They DO know and like each other and life makes sense and my interests are so cohesive”. I actually squealed with excitement when I first saw the recording of the LIVE interview of Seth Godin with Martha Beck for her new book (The Way of Integrity). I always wondered if Seth and Martha knew each other and they did (imagine my excitement if I watched it in real time).

Another collaboration I enjoyed listening to and learning from last week, although done in 2019, is between my heroes Cal Newport and James Clear who continue to inspire me every single day including my latest podcast content.

One more brand new collaboration I highly recommend you go check out is the virtual book launch with the fantastic authors Jon Acuff and Greg McKeown about their just released books (Soundtracks and Effortless). As I mentioned in previous posts, I am reading them both and finding them beautifully complementing each other. Yesterday’s post was actually how they started this conversation and I had no idea they did until I listened to it this morning.

I also smiled when Greg said that going past episode 20 in your podcast is a huge success that only about 10% of podcasts achieve, others quit before.

I am about to launch my 25th episode.

So cool.

Delightful Encounters

Light & Easy

Imagine if the hardest thing you have to do at your job was light and easy. Instead of dreading the year-end report you prepare for the leadership team, what if it felt light and easy? What if the budget you had to present at the sales conference was light and easy? What if standing on the scale was light and easy? What if the parent-teacher meeting for your high schooler was light and easy? Take anything challenging in your life and think what would happen if you retired the frustration you have about it and instead replaced it with a soundtrack that said “light and easy.” I scribbled those three words on a Post-it note and stuck it on the window I look out every day at my desk. From here on out, the writing process was going to be light and easy. That was the new soundtrack I was going to listen to.
~Jon Acuff, Soundtracks:The Surprising Solution to Overthinking

I am really enjoying listening to this book, Jon is so funny too. I love this part about Light & Easy and thought I would use it to make today’s post easy.

Go read this book, especially if you are an overthinker. Even if you are not. It will give amazing mantras that you can tell yourself to move upward in life.

Light & Easy