Have you set your goals for this month yet?
If you are not sure how to do so, here are some suggestions for you:
Let your Past Inspire You
The easiest way to set monthly goals would be to review the last month. How did you do?
Rate your key life areas on a scale from 1-10, then write the reason for each rating.
- Health: How you feel about your body and energy level.
- Mental/Emotional: How you feel about your psychological well-being.
- Relationships: How you feel about your relationship to:
- Spouse/Significant other.
- Friends.
- Family.
- Finances: Your personal financial situation and your family’s.
- Work: Your 9-5 job and side projects.
- Spiritual Growth: Your connection to God.
- Learning: Your educational development.
- Personal Environment: Your home and work environment.
- Fun & Recreation: Your hobbies, playtime, relaxation, and adventure experiences.
- Service & Contribution: How you serve the world/volunteering.
If you have done a recent rating, compare the two ratings, and see what changed.
The lowest rating is a good indication of what needs more attention from you in the coming weeks. You could set your goals based on your insights from the different ratings.
You can also take goals from last month that you have not accomplished yet, and move them to the new month. But first, it is vital to check why you didn’t achieve them in the first place. What’s the blocking point?
For example, I have not meditated but once or twice last month. When I dug deeper, I noticed the friction. The area where I used to meditate is full of clutter due to moving some furniture around, so I decided to declutter that area and get back to my good habit this month.
Let Your Future Inspire You
You can set your monthly goals by looking over the month ahead; what’s coming up soon? Do you have an event to plan for? A birthday, an anniversary, a meeting? While such events might not be personal goals, they are still projects that will take a good chunk of your time which you need to consider.
Are You a Goal-setting Pro?
- You can check your list of annual goals to see which of them fits this season of your life.
- You can check your word of the year to come up with ideas on how to bring it to life this month.
Success Secrets
Think about when you will work on your goals. Until you set time to work on your goals, they will keep floating out there. Book yourself. I usually set time to work on goals on the mornings of my weekends, or when I know the kids will be occupied, so I have an hour or two to myself.
Write your monthly goals on a piece of paper that you see daily. I tape them to my computer screen usually. Visibility is key to success. Don’t keep that paper for more than a quarter there. Replace it. I have recently started taping my weekly goals to my screen, and it helped me stick to them.
Habits Reminder
As for the habits you want to grow in the new month, you need to define them, decide when you will do them during the day, write them in your habit tracker, and, just like goals, keep them visible. I usually track the same habits for a quarter and then come up with new habits to track in the new quarter. For example, I tracked washing the dishes for a while, and then I added the habit of wiping kitchen surfaces later.
Are you ready to set goals? Do you feel more excited about this month? Let me know if this post was helpful to you; I’d love to know your thoughts.
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